Myakka Elementary School
37205 Manatee Avenue
Myakka City , Fl. 34251
941-708-5515
"Educating the mind without educating the heart is no education at all" ~ Aristotle
MRS. VELDKAMP'S COUNSELING CORNER
Be sure to get to know your school counselor, your biggest advocate!
School Counseling at Myakka City Elementary School is a comprehensive (available to all students) developmental (age-appropriate) program designed to ensure that today's students become productive, well-adjusted adults of tomorrow. The program is proactive and preventative in nature with a focus on academic achievement, character development, college/career awareness, and the social/emotional growth of all of our students.
Welcome,
Debbie Veldkamp
ABOUT ME
Hello and thank you for taking the time to browse my website. My name is Debbie Veldkamp and I am privileged to have been selected as the School Counselor at Myakka City Elementary School. I am a graduate of Florida State University (M.S. Elementary Education), a graduate of Argosy University (M.A. School Counseling K-12), have earned my ESOL endorsement, and am currently certified in ESE. It has been a pleasure to serve students over the years as a classroom teacher, ESE teacher, ESE Liaison, ESOL coordinator, and School Counselor. I am an active member of ASCA (American School Counseling Association) and the Florida School Counseling Association, and enjoy attending their conferences and training's whenever possible. I have taught in various schools since 1991, taking time off throughout the years to raise my own children; ages 30, 28, 24, 20, and 17. My husband and I have five adorable grandsons and enjoy spending as much time with family as possible.
I have a deep love for children of all ages and a passion for helping them grow socially, emotionally, and academically. As the school counselor at Myakka City Elementary, my job is to advocate for children and help them develop the skills they need to solve problems and overcome barriers that may impede their ability to learn.
MISSION AND VISION
Vision
The school counselor provides a program that is developmentally appropriate, available to all students, and is aligned with the ASCA (American School Counseling Association) National Model. The school counselor is an advocate for all students and partners with stakeholders to promote learning by helping to remove barriers that may impede a student’s emotional, social, and/or academic success.
Mission
In order to promote compassionate, caring, lifelong learners, the school counselor works together with all stakeholders to create an atmosphere in which individuals become responsible and successful members of their community and the world. The counseling program is driven by data and helps students acquire the knowledge and skills necessary to become responsible citizens in our ever-changing world.
DEVELOPMENTAL NEEDS OFELEMENTARY SCHOOL CHILDREN
The elementary school years are a time for children to develop the attitude, knowledge, and skills to become healthy, confident, competent, and successful learners. They are beginning to develop the Life Skills and academic skills to become successful citizens and life long learners.
What Bullying IS
Bullying is behavior that is:
· Repeated
· Intentional
· Deliberate abuse of power
Bullying can be:
· Physical – hitting, punching
· Verbal- teasing or name-calling
-Social - excluding someone intentionally, telling others not to be friends with someone
What Bullying IS NOT
It is important for both parents and students to understand that one act of aggressive behavior IS NOT bullying.
BE A BUDDY, NOT A BULLY
BULLYING
Check out these helpful links
Cyber Safety for Kids
Do:
Consider putting a Parent-Child Technology Agreement in place
Keep your address, phone number, school and other identifying information private
Remember that ANYTHING you do online can be traced back to you
Think before you type. If you wouldn’t be comfortable with what you are saying being on the front page of the morning paper, you probably don’t want to type it online
Tell your parents and/or other trusted adults if you have problems while online (cyber-bullying, harassment)
Don’t:
Share your password (parents may be the exception)
Send personal information (name, address, phone number, photographs) to strangers
Don’t go on websites that seem unsafe or make you feel uncomfortable
BULLYING RESOURCES FOR STUDENTS
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Family Links and Resources
ADHD
Nationally recognized authority on ADHD
Children and Adults with Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (CHADD)
What is ADHD?
Dyslexia
A non-profit organization dedicated to helping individuals with dyslexia,
their families and the communities that support them.
The International Dyslexia Association
Students with Special Needs
PHP's mission was developed in response to the need in our community for
information, training, and support services for families who have children
with special needs and the professionals who serve them.
Parents Helping Parents
Anxiety and Stress
Worry Wise Kids
Social Media Apps
parent's guide to social media apps
Internet Safety for Kids
Hidden Apps
Counseling Services
Jewish Family &Children's Service is a multi-function family agency
serving the Suncoast of Florida. The services are based on the premise that
personnel trained in understanding the behavior and environments of individuals,can help them with crises, problems, and growth issues to improve the quality of their lives.
Centerstone
Free assessment and referral services, and assists with mental and
substance abuse issues (alcoholism, drug abuse) affecting children and adults.
Emergency Crisis- 941-747-1628
Outpatient Services - 941-782-4150
Suncoast Behavioral Health
Suncoast Behavioral Health Center’s medically supervised inpatient child & adolescent program provides psychiatric evaluation and treatment for children (5-12) and adolescents (13-17) who need 24 hour care. Call 941-251-5000
Blue Butterfly - Tidewell Hospice
Grief Support for Families
Whole Child Manatee
The Whole Child Connection is a comprehensive web-based service delivery
system that helps Manatee County families access the services they need to
enhance their quality of life or often simply make ends meet.
Florida Multi-Tiered System of Support
MTSS-Response To Intervention
Behavior
What you do to change behavior
Empowering Parents
We Care
This agency prequalifies low income citizens to receive specialized
medical care.
Phone: 941-755-3952
Autism
The Center for Autism & Related Disabilities at USF is a community-based
project that provides information and consultation to individuals diagnosed
with autism spectrum disorders and related disabilities. CARD-USF offers
instruction and coaching to families and professionals through a
training and assistance model.
Florida Kidcare - Health Insurance for Children
Anger Management
Anger management tips and techniques to decrease anger
High quality internet resources
Legal Aide Manasota
Free legal services to low income individuals and families in Sarasota and
Manatee counties who cannot afford to pay an attorney.
Growing Up Drug Free
A parent's guide to prevention
Understood -
Provides resources and support so people who learn and think differently can thrive.
Kids Kids
Health is the #1 most-trusted source for physician-reviewed information and advice on children's health and parenting issues
KidSmartz
Learn how to keep your child safe
Life Skills
Equipping Students with Skills for Life
August -Cooperation
September - Responsibility
October - Respect
November - Patriotism
December - Gratitude
January - Empathy
February - Perseverance
March - Honesty
April - Courage
May - Creativity
Just for Kids
Just for Kids
A creative, innovative and educational website designed for elementary school students to learn about bullying prevention, engage in activities and be inspired to take action
Hector's World is a unique resource to teach cybercitizenship and how to combat cyberbullying
Just for fun! Videos, art, games
Calming Websites, Activities and Games
Julia Cook Books:
A Bad Case of Tattle Tongue
My Mouth is a Volcano
Personal Space Camp
Cliques Just Don’t Make Cents
The Worst Day of My Life Ever (Listening and Following Directions)
I Just Don’t Like the Sound of No! (Accepting No for an answer/disagreeing the right way)
Bully Beans
Study Skilled...Not!!!
Lying Up A Storm
Wilma Jean and the Worry Machine
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Wilma Jean and the Worry Machine Activity and Idea Book
Bubble Gum Brain (Growth Mindset)
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Bubble Gum Brain Activity and Idea Book
SodaPop Head (Anger Management)
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Soda Pop Head Activity and Idea Book
Making Friends is an Art
I Just Want to Do It My Way! (Staying on task and asking for help)
Decibella and her 6-inch Voice
But It’s Just A Game (Video Game Addiction)
The D Word (Divorce)
Ricky Sticky Fingers
Baditude What to Do When Your Life Stinks!
I Can’t Believe You Just Said That
Rumor Has It
The Judgmental Flower
I Have Ants In My Pants
Hygiene You Stink
Be Where Your Feet Are!
What Shoes Will You Wear? (Jobs)
Smarter that the Scoopers (Keeping kids safe from predators)
That Rule Doesn’t Apply to Me!
My Fantabulous Brain
The Anti-Test Anxiety Society
Getting Yourself Together When your Family Falls Apart
I’m Stretched
Integrity
Books Genres:
Anger
Angry Octopus
Hunter and his Amazing Remote Control
Zach gets Frustrated
When Sophie Gets Angry… Really Really Angry…
Crankenstein
Hello, Anger
A Little Spot of Anger
The Sour Grape (misunderstandings)
Anxiety and Worry
The Worry Box
Worry To much
Wilma Jean the Worry Machine Activity and Idea Book
Hey Warrior (older students)
The Worrywarts
Stressy Jessy
Worry Says What?
The Huge Bag of Worries
A Little Spot of Worry
A Little Spot of Anxiety
Behavior
Interrupting Chicken
The Pout-Pout Fish in the Big-Big Dark
David Goes to School
The Bad Seed
The Rainbow Fish
A Little Spot of Frustration
Boredom
A Little Spot of Boredom
Bullying Books:
The Juice Box Bully
Bullies Are a Pain in the Brain
Bully Beans (Julia Cook)
King of the Playground
Chester The Raccoon and the Big Bad Bully
The Recess Queen
Bullies Never Win
The Pretty In Me
Enemy Pie
One
The Aunt Bully
Choices
The Couch Potato
What Would Danny Do?
Confidence
A Little Spot of Confidence
Cooperation
Swimmy
The Little Red Hen
The Little Red Pen
Courage
A Color Of His Own
Fiona Flamingo
Stand Tall Molly Lou Melon
Stick And Stone Best Friends Forever!
You Look Ridiculous
Chrysanthemum
The Big Umbrella
The Mixed-Up Chameleon
The Good Egg
The Cool Bean
The Empty Pot
The Invisible Boy
Spaghetti In a Hot Dog Bun
A Little Bit Different
Speak Up, Molly Lou Melon
You Be You
Sticks
What Do You Do With a Chance?
Creativity
The Dot
Death/Grief
Chester Raccoon And the Acorn Full of Memories
A Child’s Simple Guide though Grief
One Wave At a Time
Lifetimes
The Invisible String
The Invisible String Workbook
The Next Place
Tear Soup
When Someone Very Special Dies
You Weren’t With me
Ghost Wings
The Boy and the Gorilla
Death/Grief Animals
The Invisible Leash
Riley and Milo
Drama
The Drama Llama
The Drama Llama Activity Guide
Trouble Talk
Divorce
Getting Yourself Together when Your Family Comes Apart
Empathy
It will Be Ok
Stand In my Shoes
The Buddy Bench
What Shoes will I wear
How do I stand in your Shoes?
The Invisible Boy
Feelings
The Color Monster, a story about emotions
Howard B. Wigglebottom and the Monkey on his Back
Howard B. Wigglebottom Learns to Listen
The Jester Has Lost His Jingle
Trouble Talk
Do unto Otters: A Manners Book
The Way I Act
The Way I Feel
The Grouchy Ladybug
Kevin Knows the Rules
Lots of Feelings
What were you Thinking?
Glad Monster, Sad Monster
On Monday When It Rained
Have you Filled Your Bucket Today?
The Magic Coloring Book of Feelings
Mootilda’s Bad Mood
A Little Spot of Feelings
A Little Scribble \Spot
Quick as a Cricket
Sometimes I’m a Pillow
Friendship
The Good, The Bad, And The Spooky
The Crayon Box that Talked
Tobin Learns to Make Friends
A Big Guy Took My Ball!
Stick And Stone
The Little Red Pen
The Great Eggscape
Happiness
A Little Spot of Happiness
Incarceration
My Daddy is in Jail
Integrity
The “I” In Integrity
Kindness
I am One
Pete The Cat’s Groovy Guide To Kindness
A Little Spot of Kindness
At School, Kindness Starts with You
Ripple’s Effect
Be Kind
Each Kindness
Kindness Starts with You
Love
A Little Spot of Love
Meet the Counselor
Mrs. Joyce Gives the Best High-Fives
Alexander and the terrible Horrible No Good, Very Bad Day
Mindfulness
Master Of Mindfulness
Your Fantastic Elastic Brain
Be Where your Feet are!
What Does it mean to be present?
I Can Handle It!
A Little Calm Spot
Peace
A Little Peaceful Spot
Perseverance
Ricky The Rock that couldn’t Roll
Leo The Lightning Bug
After the Fall
What Do you Do With A Problem?
The Smart Cookie
Potential In All of Us
Maybe
Giraffe’s Can’t Dance
The Smart Cookie
Respect
Mufaro’s Beautiful Daughters
Rules
Know And Follow the Rules
Join in and Play
Hooty Learns What’s Right
A Childs Book Of Manners
Sadness
A Little Spot of Sadness (Empathy and Compassion)
Social Skills
Superflex
Superflex.. A Superhero Social Curriculum
You are a social Detective!
Self-Control
A Little Spot of Frustration
Testing
Testing Miss Malarkey
Tyler Tames the Testing Tiger
General
Imagine a Day
What Should Danny Do?
A Kiss Goodbye
A Pocket Full Of Kisses
The Kissing Hand
The Ants go Marching One By One
The Itsy-Bitsy Spider
The Greedy Python
Five Little Ducks
Five little Monkeys Jumping on the Bed
Sylvester and the Magic Pebble
Lauren’s Kingdom
There was An old Lady Who Swallowed A Fly
Oh the Places You’ll Go!
The Sneeches and Other Stories
A Light in the Attic
The Missing Piece
Where the Sidewalk Ends
Resource Books
